Make Your Next Monday better with Coffee

I had a vice not too long ago but didn’t really see it as a vice; it was coffee.

Now, I love coffee and that was always my excuse; I loved it. Since I love coffee I was going to drink it and be caught up and absorbed in this simple pleasure of taste, aroma, and comfort. However, what I didn’t realize was that I was drinking it a little too much.

I had thought about laying it down, just for the sake of putting a stop to my 6 to 8 cups a day. The fact that it was my only vice really bothered me, so I was really going to quit, and the next thing that was demonstrated to me was probably going to send me over to the ‘coffee free’ zone.

Well, that’s exactly what happened. I watched a video that my friend Camden Ross sent me and it talked a lot about the brain, and the presenter didn’t have anything good to say about coffee.

So that was the straw that broke the Camel’s back, and I quit.

Afterwards I had a couple days of headaches and I was home-free. After a week I felt great, and after a month I no longer had the vice. Success!

Now, since I love coffee so much, I still didn’t see a reason to deprive myself completely of the drink. I still enjoy the scent and flavor, and it’s got a lot of sentimental meaning to me, as I remember times of sitting around and drinking coffee with Dad talking about anything. So as a result of that knowing, I’ve given myself an excuse to drink coffee once a week, as sort of a neat little treat to look forward and I chose Monday mornings.

Sounds like an excuse, and it is, but I think this one gives me something extra special, and the bottom line is that it doesn’t have a hold on me. I don’t get headaches throughout the week; it’s gone.

Now since I’m drinking once a week, why did I choose Monday mornings? Well, to me Monday is a representation to many as a very stressful day. Many people are not looking forward to Monday. So I chose Monday, so I can show you that you can give yourself a reason to look forward to Monday even if you’re not living your perfect Monday quite yet. You can always do something small to make Monday a little bit more pleasurable.

You might want to think about this angle when you’re going afterward toward goals that you’ve set out to accomplish. Sometimes, we get bogged down in the long monotonous journey going after something that’s not visible yet. To make your adventure just a little bit more exciting, add something special to the end as a result of you accomplishing it.

Give all things that you have dreaded over a long haul, but you know that you need to get there one more reason why you should keep going.

And if coffee is your reason, then make it so. We need all the help we can get; so rewarding ourselves I believe is a great idea.

What do you think? Am I just giving myself an excuse or is their power behind what I’m doing?

If there’s power, do you think you should be doing something similar for your goals; perhaps even Monday?

 

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  • http://www.threedimensionalvitality.com/ Ann J Musico

    I LOVE what you did!  You have mastered this instead of letting it control you and then you have found a really wonderful way to make a day most people dread into a treat!  I think what you did on both counts is fantastic!  I do a 3 day fast – used to do it monthly but now doe it at the start of each season and I go without solid food those 3 days.  Some months it’s hard and some it’s easy.  Part of the reason I do it is to detox and give my digestive system a rest.  But a huge part is to show my body who’s boss!  I don’t want anything to control me except the Spirit of God. I stand on 1 Corinthians 6:12:   “I have the right to do
    anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right
    to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything.”

    Love what you are doing Rob!

  • Anonymous

    Ann, thanks a bunch… 
    That’s the best attitude to win over addictions of any kind. I don’t want anything to have a hold on me. I love how you detox, and really love the attitude of showing the body who’s boss! The 1 Corinthians passage is right on as well; thanks for sharing that. We have the right to do anything – but we choose to not be mastered by anything!

  • http://designercam.com/ Cam

    Great post and thought process Rob. Everything we can do to break negative emotional cycles we should try to do.

    And you’ve done it the wise way, by making it a reward that is based on a regular time frame, and not something that is more flexible and could ‘grow’ back into what it use to be.

    ~Cam
    (P.S. and thanks for the plug :-)

  • Anonymous

    Thanks Cam… Appreciate that affirmation; It’s great to know that I have a say so on when I drink coffee. Now, well I guess I’m out of vices… :)

  • http://designercam.com/ Cam

     By being ‘out of vices’, you are now in control of your life. Get out there and make your freedom count! :)

  • http://rise365.com/ Michael Good

    Rob, I think there is power behind what you’re doing. You weren’t happy with the situation and you made a change. That’s powerful! Way to go, man!

  • Anonymous

    Thanks so much! There’s power behind making positive changes in the midst of negative situations…

  • http://www.fatherofone.com/ Michael Wright

    Kudos for the coffee cutback!  I never drank the stuff until I was 30 yrs old and now I think I can’t live without it, which is of course ludicrous.  I love Ann’s comment here about fasting and “showing her body who’s boss”.  That is very wise and healthy; glad you’re recognizing a change you need to make.  Does this mean we meet at Starbucks now for Tea instead of Coffee?  :)

    When I was being very strict with my eating at the end of 2011 in order to reach a goal weight, one of the requirements was to schedule in a “cheat meal”.  Whatever I wanted in whatever quantity, but only for that meal.  It gave me the satisfaction to enjoy a trip to my favorite mexican restaurant with my daughter on Saturdays, which made it even better. 

  • Anonymous

    I sure will brother! :)

  • Anonymous

    Hey I like your “cheat meal” plan… Many times, I think life calls for them anyway… They give us that extra bit to look forward to, and I believe it affects our momentum as well. Oh and about Starbucks, depends on what day :-) On Monday’s I’m home free with Coffee…

  • http://www.fatherofone.com/ Michael Wright

    Cam, thanks to this post, I signed up for your Reflective Bible Study.  It sounded like a breath of fresh air!  Look forward to it.  

  • http://designercam.com/ Cam

     Thanks for the signup Michael. Let me know what you think of the videos and of Reflective Bible Study.

  • Whitney Sparks

    6-8 cups? Wow. That’s amazing that you were able to cut back w/that many. My parents and in-laws are huge coffee drinkers. My husband and I don’t even like coffee. So, our first year of marriage they bought us a coffee pot so that they can brew coffee at our house when they visit. I always dread those days! I agree w/going after things when it’s hard to see the outcome. That sounds like my entirely new career. It’s called taking a big ‘ole leap of faith! I like being the one in control and it feels like sometimes you have to give a little of that control up since you don’t know the future. But I feel like in the end it’s going to be well worth it!

  • http://www.180coach.com/ Rob Clinton

    In the end, our efforts are all worth it! Just keep leaping Whitney; that’s the exciting part; the leaping… isn’t it?;-)

    Ha; That’s funny about the coffee pot! Yeah, the things we’ll do to keep coffee available wherever we go…And hey, if you don’t drink it, then more kudos for you… Caffeine can hold you into submission if you let it… Plus our teeth tend to stay whiter, the less we drink ;-)

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